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Saturday, July 20, 2013


Can we make ourselves happier?

By Pascale Harter for BBC News

29 June 2013


Can we make ourselves happier? According to studies from all over the globe collated by the World Happiness Database in Rotterdam, we can. But the path to happiness may not be where we are looking for it. Professor Ruut Veenhoven, Director of the Database and Emeritus professor of social conditions for human happiness at the Erasmus University in Rotterdam, says his own study found a slight negative correlation between the number of times people in a study spontaneously mentioned "goals" and their happiness. "Though it is generally assumed that you need goals to lead a happy life, evidence is mixed. The reason seems to be that unhappy people are more aware of their goals, because they seek to change their life for the better." But perhaps the most intriguing finding from an array of studies on file at the database is the lack of correlation between seeing meaning in life and being happy. "Surprisingly I found no correlation," says Professor Veenhoven.

Studies suggest leading an active life is the strongest correlate with happiness. "In order to have a happy life, a rewarding life, you need to be active. So involvement is more important to happiness than meaning in the sense of the why, why we are here." But the best news on file at the World Happiness Database is that we can make ourselves happier, and not just through external changes like having more money. "Research has shown that we can make ourselves happier because happiness does change over time," says Professor Veenhoven, "and these changes are not just a matter of better circumstances but of better dealing with life. Elderly people tend to be wiser, and for that reason, happier."

So what should we do to make ourselves happier? Studies collated by the database say you tend to be happier if you:

  Are in a long-term relationship
  Are actively engaged in politics
  Are active in work and in your free time
  Go out for dinner
  Have close friendships (though happiness does not increase with the number of friends you have)

And there are some surprising findings:

  People who drink in moderation are happier than people who don't drink at all
  Men tend to be happier in a society where women enjoy greater equality
  Being considered good looking increases men's happiness more than it does women's.
  You tend to be happier if you think you're good looking, rather than if you actually, objectively speaking, are.
  Having children lowers your happiness levels, but your happiness increases when they grow up and leave home.

And be careful of that morning commute to work. A German study (by Frey and Stutzer published in 2004) found a strong link between time spent commuting and satisfaction with life. Those who spent an hour on their journey to work were found to be significantly less happy that those who did not commute. And the study suggests that higher earnings from a job that involves commuting do not compensate for the time lost. Professor Veenhoven and his colleagues have been trying to encourage people to do more of what makes them happy with a diary they can fill out online. So far it has attracted more than 20,000 users. Pensioner Jana Koopman says it has changed her life, not just because it helped her identify what makes her happy, and prompted her to take up a painting class, but because it made her do less of what doesn't make her happy. "You can make everything clean and tomorrow it's dirty again, so why do it? Or don't do it too often. I like to read. So now I just pick up a book I want to read and leave all the other things."

Don't worry, though, if you can't put down your laptop and pick up a book or a paintbrush. We can't be happy all the time. Research shows that sadness is useful. It acts as a red traffic light to curb negative behaviour. According to studies on the database it's actually good for us all to be sad 10% of the time. Professor Veenhoven and his colleagues have begun analysing the data collected in the online diary to conduct more happiness studies. So far, analysis on self-confessed workaholics shows, perhaps unsurprisingly, that unwinding after work with exercise rather than a beer on the sofa makes for a happier life.

Top 10 happiest countries
Countries ranked in order of "satisfaction with life", according to the World Database of Happiness:

  Costa Rica
  Denmark
  Iceland
  Switzerland
  Norway
  Finland
  Mexico
  Sweden
  Canada
  Panama


[So the trick to happiness seems to be, in a nutshell, be romantically and politically engaged with a small number of close friends, eat out on a regular basis, have some wine with the meal, believe you’re good looking, don’t have children, don’t spend too much time dusting and cleaning, do what you enjoy rather than chores….. and live in Denmark where the women are on equal footing, commuting distances are short and it isn’t too hot – OK, that last bit might just apply to me. I think I’m already half way there. Now just to work on the other bits…….. ] 

4 comments:

Libellule said...

I'm back to blogging and reading. I enjoyed reading your post.

I wonder, in all honesty, about recipes for happiness because I think each person is different and add to that, we are always changing. Do our means to happiness change as we change?

I also chuckle as I read the rankings because Switzerland, Sweden and the Netherlands are countries that have the highest rates of suicide. It all depends on the criteria: a person can answer questions to a pre-made questionnaire, but these might not be their personal elements of happiness.

VV said...

A lot of these criteria apply to me and I am the happiest I've ever been in my life.

Libellule said...

That's great VV! just raising some questions and thoughts.

CyberKitten said...

Personal happiness is, or at least can be, a very complex thing. I think you need some basics though - a roof over your head, clothes on your back and food on the table. It's possible to be happy without these but I think its much more difficult.

After all that's been sorted we move onto the nice to have if you can get it - relationships definitely help. We're social creatures and tend not to do very well on our own for long periods of time. Having something to do helps too - not so much as goals to achieve but something to keep us occupied and, if at all possible, fulfilled as much as possible. Recognition for what we end up doing with our lives helps. No one likes being ignored or having their work dismissed.

I think its very important not to want too much and not to want what other people have. This applies to possessions and most definitely to people you may want in your life but can't have for whatever reason. Wanting something you know you cannot have is definitely a popular road to un-happiness!